* support arm-host and x86-cross-arm
* fix trt myelib cmake build issue at 'trt copy env'(about 'copy env', Please refs cb92123f)

about x86-cross-arm CUDA env:
1: run ./scripts/cmake-build/create_cuda_build_libs.py to prepare
   cuda/cudnn/trt env(download deb package info, Please refs create_cuda_build_libs.py)
2: export TRT_ROOT_DIR=xxxxx which may create by step 1
3: export CUDNN_ROOT_DIR=xxxx which may create by step 1
4: export PATH=xxxx:$PATH  xxxx need create by step 1, which nvcc have
   relative path dir: ../targets/sbsa-linux/
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GitOrigin-RevId: 7d8037434e

1: fix cmake cross-ios failed caused by df118a87
   build static lib for APPLE define for XCODE third_party framework including require

2: megbrain_test/megdnn_test build when MGE_INFERENCE_ONLY=ON
   now u can build megbrain_test/megdnn_test by:
   EXTRA_CMAKE_ARGS="-DMGE_WITH_TEST=ON" ./scripts/cmake-build/xxx.sh
   example macos-cross-ios build megdnn_test for IOS by
   EXTRA_CMAKE_ARGS="-DMGE_WITH_TEST=ON" ./scripts/cmake-build/cross_build_ios_arm_inference.sh

3: reuse host flatc build when cross build mode
GitOrigin-RevId: 132f4bf893567bdb1d54de506449950513a5841f

GitOrigin-RevId: 7ffd9b9541

host build and cross build

now cmake status:
a: host build
    1: windows build -- ok
    2: linux build -- ok
    3: macos build -- ok
b: cross build
    1: windows cross build arm-android -- ok
    2: windows cross build arm-linux   -- ok
    3: linux cross build arm-android -- ok
    4: linux cross build arm-linux   -- ok
    5: macos cross build arm-android -- ok
    6: macos cross build arm-linux   -- ok
    7: macos cross build ios         -- ok
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