Fix a bug that a TCPHandler may be shutdown immediately
after creation.
Becuase we put handler.Start() call after timeout check and
lastActivity is initialized in Start(), this will lead to a
incorrect timeout.
Also because we will call handler.Start() right after the
constructor and timeout check, so it makes no difference
where we put the initializtion of lastActivity. We won't do
this again in Start() because DateTime.Now will consumes a
lot of cpu time.